In today’s world where political rhetoric and social movements often take front stage, one can’t help but chuckle at the twists and turns that modern feminism has taken. Feminism, once heralded as the wave that would bring equality and liberation, has taken an interesting detour. Let’s face it, back in the day, women had a pretty sweet deal. No jobs, no worries outside the home, and certainly no juggling of nine-to-five gigs with household chores. But somewhere along the line, someone let the cat out of the bag and said, “We can do anything,” sparking a feminist wildfire and, ironically, making life a lot more complicated.
There was a secret that some believed should have been kept sealed. Women had it all figured out. By playing the part of domestic goddesses, they had maximum control with minimal effort. The smart move might have been to continue this act, but instead, someone revealed that women could, indeed, do anything men could do, and maybe even better. In doing so, they handed over the secret recipe for domestic bliss in exchange for office desks and power suits. Now, double-income households are the norm, and women are expected to burn the candle at both ends.
The sight of housewives strolling in their yoga pants, seemingly without a care, often catches the eye of modern feminists. It’s almost as if these women have hacked the system, mastering the art of stress-free living while others are glued to their job responsibilities. Feminists might scorn these seemingly idle women for not laboring away at a desk, but could it be they’ve achieved the ultimate retirement plan? It’s a little ironic if you stop and think about it – it’s like a case of the grass being greener.
Feminism promised liberation, yet in some cases, it has shackled women to the very career ladders they thought they wanted to climb. Women who reminisce about the days when their “no job” was “the job” find little pity for themselves. The societal shift didn’t just include the careers – it added a layer of judgment about how women choose to live their lives. As funny as it might seem at first glance, there’s a serious side to consider. There are many women out there who long for a break, an escape, or simply a return to simpler times.
For those who take feminism seriously, this isn’t a slight against progress but rather a reminder that sometimes, progress needs to be taken with a grain of humor and hindsight. Feminism has done its part to give women choices, but it’s important to remember that those choices should include the freedom to choose all aspects of one’s life – even if it means getting massages in cozy Lululemon pants. Let’s not lose sight of the goal: letting women choose the life they want to live. Remember, a good laugh at our own expense is sometimes the best way to remind us of what matters most.






