In the ever-evolving world of social trends, another term has emerged from the depths of modern feminist ideology, one that seems to overshadow common sense. It’s called “mankeeping,” a new buzzword that attempts to describe the so-called burden of providing emotional support to a partner. But let’s call it like it is: a concoction meant to justify self-centered tendencies masquerading as empowerment. Once again, the feminist narrative twists the tale to portray women as perennial victims, even in matters where men seem to struggle more. It’s the same old story, only the labels shift over time.
This new narrative suggests that the emotional struggles of men are, somehow, also the emotional burdens of women. Thus, the feminist perspective reimagines men’s loneliness as a greater issue for women—pitting compassion against so-called oppression. If a man finds himself in emotional distress, the narrative dictates that the ripple effect devastates women more profoundly. It’s a relentless perspective that perpetually positions women as the ultimate bearers of emotional hardship, no matter the actual circumstances.
What ought to be a natural, bidirectional support system within a relationship is now painted as an enslaving chore. The notion of sharing emotional intimacy with one’s partner is downgraded to a perceived weight, stripping relationships of the very foundation that fosters authentic human connection. Logically, one might presume that relationships are built upon mutual support and understanding. Yet, the idea of “mankeeping” divorces this basic principle from relationships, distorting partnership into yet another battleground for ideological war.
This distorted view asks a fundamental question: Isn’t part of being in a relationship experiencing and managing emotional intimacy? Certainly, it’s not unreasonable for one to expect a partner to be the primary source of emotional support. Where did we go wrong if caring for each other is dismissed as an imprisoning affair? What then is the purpose of a relationship if sharing life’s emotional highs and lows together is disdained as a burden?
The larger question here is: why are these ideas given credence? Perhaps it’s to support narratives that thrive on division and resentment, seeking to dismantle relationships by instilling a false notion of oppression where there should be unity. In a world full of complex challenges, let’s focus on fostering real connections and upholding values that encourage partnership rather than perpetuate division under the guise of modern feminism.
